Invitation Wording Guide

This is the most traditional introduction, used when the bride's parents are hosting a religious ceremony.

A modern, inclusive introduction that positions the couple as the hosts while still acknowledging their families.

When both families contribute, they are listed together. Traditionally, the bride's family is listed first.

Parents are listed on separate lines without "and" to connect them as a couple.

This respectfully includes the deceased parent's name alongside the living host.

This clearly indicates the hosting couple (mother and stepfather) and clarifies the bride's relationship to them.

When grandparents host, they are listed first. The parents are then acknowledged in a secondary line.

This is the most common modern solution. It puts the couple first but warmly includes all parents.

**Vivah:** The most common format, using the Ganesh invocation and formal host lines for a traditional Hindu ceremony.

**Modern Vivah:** Appropriate when the couple is organizing the ceremony, using a warmer, less formal tone.

**Anand Karaj:** The most traditional phrasing, emphasizing the blessing of God (*Waheguru*) and the oneness of the Creator (*Ik Onkar*).

A more formal, traditional Sikh invitation where the bride's family hosts and formal titles (Sardar/Sardarni) are used.

**Nikah:** Includes the Bismillah blessing. A separate card is often used for the *Walima* (reception) hosted by the groom's family.

The *Walima* is the feast/reception hosted by the groom's family. This wording is used for that specific invitation.

**Tone:** Use "honour" (with a 'u') for a church service. Include the specific church name and address directly below.

A modern approach that often leads with a meaningful scripture. "Pleasure of your company" is used for non-church venues.

**South Indian:** Templates often reference specific deities (e.g., Balaji) and use distinct terms like *Kalyanam* or *muhurtam*.

This phrasing is very formal and traditional, clearly stating the *Muhurtam* (auspicious time) for the ceremony.

**Sangeet:** The tone should be festive and light. This is the perfect place to specify a fun dress code (e.g., "Colorful & Festive Attire").

A more casual and direct approach, perfect when the couple is hosting or for a destination wedding.

**Mehndi:** Often a more intimate, daytime event. This wording feels personal and bright. Often hosted by the bride's side.

A modern, fun, and alliterative style for a joint Mehendi or Haldi event.

**Tone:** Chic and celebratory. Less formal than a reception. This is the ideal place to specify "Adults Only."

This wording is used on the main invitation or a details card to let guests know what follows the ceremony.

**Reception:** Best for a celebration held after the main wedding day. List the couple first, as they are now married.

Used when one set of parents hosts the reception. Note the "and his wife" phrasing, indicating the marriage has already occurred.

**RSVP:** This is the most common modern format. It's clean, saves on postage, and directs guests to your website for more info.

**Formal RSVP:** Uses the classic "M" placeholder (for Mr./Mrs./Ms.). This format is preferred for traditional, physical response cards.

**Details:** Use this card for practical information that does not fit on the main invitation (travel, hotel blocks, parking, attire).

A polite way to direct guests to your website. Registry info should only live on the website, not on any printed card.

**Welcome Note:** Use a warm, casual, and grateful tone. This is perfect for inclusion in welcome bags or at the hotel check-in.

A more functional note that combines the welcome message with a high-level itinerary.

**Itinerary:** Keep it simple, with clear timestamps, event titles, locations, and attire.

**Room Key Holder:** Must be very concise to fit on a small card. Use it as a mini-welcome and mini-itinerary.

**Ritual Card:** A thoughtful addition for guests unfamiliar with the customs. Briefly explain 2-3 key rituals in simple, welcoming language.

This card helps explain the beautiful and specific traditions of the Anand Karaj ceremony.